Improve `format`, `lint`, and `test` commands to make pre-commit setup simpler and more efficient

[cmgoffena13]

Parent issue for 3 improvements to empower pre-commits using sqlmesh

sqlmesh format already takes multiple file paths and can intake filenames.

Goal is to have a simple pre-commit be efficient:

repos:
  - repo: local
    hooks:
      - id: sqlmesh-format
        name: sqlmesh format
        entry: sqlmesh format
        language: system
        files: '^(models|audits)/.*\.sql$'
      - id: sqlmesh-lint
        name: sqlmesh lint
        entry: sqlmesh lint --local --use-project-index
        language: system
        files: '^models/.*\.(sql|py)$'
      - id: sqlmesh-test
        name: sqlmesh test
        entry: sqlmesh test --local --use-project-index
        language: system
        files: '^(models/.*\.(sql|py)|tests/.*\.(yaml|yml))$'

To have each command intake filenames for incremental and efficient pre-commits

[cmgoffena13]

@fresioAS -- I know you've made some changes to support a faster pre-commit, thoughts?